I am flawed.
I struggle with perfectionism.
Perfection is an impossibility.
I saw a sign outside a school that said something to the effect of chase perfection and catch excellence.
This is the wrong message to send to students.
Chasing perfection is a fool’s errand. You will always be disappointed.
Chasing excellence is reasonable.
Chasing improvement every day is attainable.
Perfectionism causes you to take the safe path.
If you have to be perfect, you will not be willing to try and fail, which is the only way you learn or create something new.
I have spent my whole life worrying about what others think of me.
It has often led me to make poor choices to fit in.
“The big question about how people behave is whether they’ve got an Inner Scorecard or an Outer Scorecard. It helps if you can be satisfied with an Inner Scorecard.” — Warren Buffett, Sunday Thinking, The Daily Coach newsletter
Your opinion of yourself is what matters most.
Most of the time, others are not thinking of you. They are too busy thinking of themselves.
Go out there. Try and fail.
Learn something from your failure that will improve your life.
Worry about what you think of yourself not what others think about you.
